Accept the Pleasures and Pains of Life to Make It Beautiful

In this busy world today, mankind is always in a hurry. Due to this hurry, they are always competing with each other, and in the process, it is definite that one will win and the other will lose. When a person achieves something or wins, he or she gets a feeling of excitement and achievement, but when it's a loss, it can be a feeling of being doomed or becoming pessimistic. It is a known fact that on this earth when the sun rises in one part of this hemisphere, the other part is in darkness. The same fact applies to life too, there are both sorrows and pleasures in life. We all experience them in one way or another. It's not fun, it's just real.

It's not fun, it's just real.  -Matt Crump

So...Life is like a boat sailing on the sea that never seems to just flow. A child is lightly smacked at birth because only then do its lungs begin to function. In fact, tears are as necessary for a person as oxygen itself. In excessive happiness, tears can still trickle down your cheeks because sufferings are their symbols – tears maintain a healthy balance in life. If a person does not realize the pain or suffering of life, then he cannot understand the joy of life. Then, the sense of proportion gets lost. So, often out of our pleasures rises pain to strike a balance.
If I have learned anything in life so far it's that every person must accept the pains of life, to understand the real meaning of joy. Otherwise, you'll never fully be able to feel the joy. As autumn must come in the course of a year, sorrows invariably follow every human being. If a person suffers pain, then the tears that flow out of his or her eyes soften the taut and tense strings of his heart and mind. In fact, the mist over the mind disappears in the form of tears, and calmness dawns there. It may not be instant, but it will come.

Some people have the notion that life is only about our sufferings. These types of people forget the happiness they enjoyed during their past time. Their blurred eyes get so shortsighted that they forget about the basic law that happiness will re-visit them once again in the future. The basic law of life is happiness and sorrow co-exists with one another. Bad things just happen and so do good. Without one, the other is useless. Thorns of life serve as a fence to protect the flowers of delight and sunlight.

Even, Shelley – the great English poet said, “Our sweetest songs are those that tell of saddest thought.”

In fact, comedy and tragedy are siblings of life. All the patterns of experience are woven with these contrasting threads. Smiles are the sighs and spice to life which otherwise becomes dull and monotonous. Even in the scriptures, it is written to take joys and sufferings together without any hesitation. He is exhorted not to be overly happy when success visits him and not to fear when pains and misery affect him.

 

The greatest humans on earth, all have suffered both pleasure and pain. This is life.

 

Matt Crump Founder/ CEO Veteran Coaching Alliance

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